The article "The Rejection is a Masked Deprivation" talks about family, it has been created by Nilesh Gore.
Parents rejection of the child, though unintentional, is also shown in various ways, like physical neglect, denial of love and affection, lack of interest in the child’s activities, interests and achievement, harsh or inconsistent punishment, failure to spend time with the child, or any kind of a activity of apparent which keeps child away.
Parent’s rejectoin can be partial or complete, passive or active and subtly or overtly heartless.
To keep the child in a crèche (pre-school, etc.) is also a form of rejection.
Rejection manifests in the child in the form of excessive fear, shyness, aggressiveness, thumb sucking, bed-wetting, depression, temper tantrums, lying, stealing, slow, conscience development, low self-esteem, feeling of insecurity, loneness, jealousy, anxitey and inability to give & receive love.
All this happiness in the subconscious level of mind i.E.
automatically & child can not help, resist or prevent their manifeastation in his behavior or personality. Parental rejection is a major reason why adolescents decide to run away form home.
Not let’s come to know to the source i.E. causes of rejection as follows.
Causes of REJECTION:
It would appear that a large number of parents, who neglects their kids have themsleves been the victims of parental rejection (coz, parents sow, so do kids reap & we are what we repeatedly do). And even the children, who face the parental rejection don’t accept their parents when the latter grow old. The root thing I want to tell that it is not a one way behavior. That is why the lack of love has been referred as a communicable disease.
A child may be negletced without being rejected. In other words, when parents are relaly much busy with their work, they neglect their own kids.
*** Maternal depriavtion causes faulty development. ***
When infants are deprived of maetrnal stimulation as a consequences of separation from the mother e.G. worikng women or due to lack of adequate mothering in the home.
Faculty development has been observed obliviously.
When the mother devotes little attention to the child and In the process of neglect or reject him, the effects of such masked deprivation may be more devastation than any one can imagine.
Rejection or punishing mothers may cause tense, unsatisfied & negative behavior among thier infants even at really early age. In case of early &prolonged deprivation, the dmaage to the infant may be irreversible or only partially reversible.
Those mother who takes the part in the kitty parties and the inflict separation on their child infants, and those who keep the child in a crèche must be careful.
Remember: A Loving emotionally responsive parent will invoke positive, cooperative, loving responses form the child.
Thanks for your time consideration
Nilesh Gore
www.Brendynamics.Com/gr
About The Author
Name : NIlesh B Gore
Profession : Graphologist(Hndwriting Analyst) & SW. Eng.
Email : ng411002@rediffmail.Com
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